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my 1 am friends

My 1 am friends,
Let me share with you
the five stages of grief beautifully explained by Nayyirah Waheed, We all go through some adversities of life and often the process involves is not too easy, but do we have an idea that there are few emotions that we powerfully express yet fail to notice them. Let's see how we go through those:
1) Denial: This can’t be happening to me.
2) Anger: Why is this happening? Who is to blame?
3) Bargaining: Just bring them back and I will do anything./ I will do anything to alleviate or change this.
4) Depression: I’m too sad to do anything.
5) Acceptance: I’m at peace with what happened./ what is happening.
Once we accept the situation, The process gets smoother. Acceptance is the only way to be at peace.
Whatever happens good or bad is an experience.
Experience teaches you stuff that instant results won't!
And as its said
"For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse.
So Collapse,
Crumble,
This is not your destruction
This is your birth"

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